Relationships & Money (a little long)

What I am going to write here today in this blog does not signify anything. I should say my final paper finished today (Yay! I Finally Finished Something!) But when I came home i stumbled upon a song that made me want to write something on my blog site. Its bout relationships.

 

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As we all know, money is usually the main thing that comes into mind especially when u talk about relationship. In Malaysia, guys would usually say, "In order to have a gf, we need money." But trust me those who say this does not have a girlfriend. Here is the thing, Girls want guys with confidence and able to make decisions. Those guys who only look from afar, and dare not go.. would not get the girl. I bet you guys out there always ask, "Why that fugly guy is with that hot girl?" Or "Is that girl fucking blind?!" Here is the low down, he dares to go after her. He is not afraid of getting shut down because he knows what he wants and know he can treat her best! Confidence boys!  

Alright there are also those girls who only looks for rich boys and good looking boys. Yes, this type of guys can easily exist in this world. I have a girlfriend who looks for rich boys that are "ok" looker kinda guy as her boyfriend. But guess what she found many, was she ever happy? *shakes the head* The relationships keeps changing from different guys to different guys. Finding a rich boy and a boy who loves u and would do anything for you is hard to come by. Look for love! Not for Money!

Those in Relationship.

There are also relationships that ends because of money issue. But usually this comes down to communications. I have people who tell me love is basic understanding after sometime together. But as time goes, problems occur and they keep quiet about it or they would just keep it in them. One day it is going to explode and everything would turn sour. This happened to my friend and his gf. They never spoke to each other about problems they are not happy with each other. 

Alright I bet some of you are thinking, "But, hor! Every time when I want to talk to him/her time, he/she would avoid." If you love him/her, make sure he/she listens. It is hard but do it a few times to get his/her attention and force her to listen. If he/she breaks up with you because of this, he/she does not deserve to be loved. 

I am confident to tell you. I rarely quarreled with my girlfriend of 5 years.  I can tell you, the time we have quarreled are less then one hand's fingers. Because we talk,;yes sometimes, conversation turns sour. This is the time I accept it is her but definitely we would tolerate it because I love her.I bet she tolerates my craziness for rides. Do remember tolerate and talk when you can't tolerate anymore. He/she must have a reason why he/she is doing something. And oh yeah, guys! LISTEN TO HER!! So she won't nag at you anymore.

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Those in Relationships

Ever wonder why you love him/her? 

To me the best answer is, "I Don't Know!" or "Beats the shit out of me!" 

Come on, guys. Why do you go for a girl first? Be honest! I bet you it is either, she is drop dead gorgeous or has the biggest tits you have ever seen. For me, "Beats the shit out of me!"

But what makes you fully commit to a relationship? I bet we Chinese, we believe in sticking to a relationship for a long time. Forget about the playboys. I bet if you look back to the beginning, you won't be able to find a single reason why she has become part of your life as if she is your wife.

Those relationship: when you think you and her is over and done with, think back of the time you spent with her. It would give you another reason why you would stay with her. Believe me; we human always thinks the grass is greener on the other side. But I have a friend who has a girlfriend but left her after he saw another girl. He spent about less then a year with this new girl. But guess what; in the end, he goes back to his original girlfriend. So happened to my neighbour, he left his almost fiance, for anther girl. Now he is now married to my neighbour.

If you want to leave someone, please give him/her a honest reason why you are leaving. It hurts yes i do know. But it is best to let her know honestly. Then to see 1 month later, you have a picture with another girl close in your arms. I bet you don't want that to happen to you if she does that to you. 

My friend who is as close to me like a  brother, had this happened to him when his gf left him. It beat the shit out of him. But at least he keeps telling himself, I am alright and life goes on. This optimism is key to a good recover from a break up. Congrats Bro! 

Goes back to the point. If you think the grass is greener on the other side, think again. Would you want to shape another girl to understand you when you just do a little movement. 

Imagine this, your girlfriend would know when you want to smoke. She would know you are not interested in something when you do a certain action. She understand that a little movement of your body would tell her everything she needs to know on your day and what you want. 

Boys, would you want to start that over again?

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