Debate: Sluts vs Prostitutes

This is an all time great debate (started by my Brother), To those girls who are thinking this is going to be something sexist, I shall repeat, "This is not a sexist thing..": 

Sluts vs Prostitutes, Which is the Worst? 

1.0 Sluts

These are either your average man-whores or cheap club bitches. First and foremost, they are doing it for the point they just love having sex or just generally perverted and a desperado in disguise. People like these always has a sense of fashion and what is the best way to attract the "mates" they desire. Be it they are, heterosexual or homosexual or even bisexual; they dress to impress. There is also the way they bring themselves and posses high level of flirting capabilities. 

But as we all know, sluts would sleep with anyone that suits their interest or in worst words, "fucks anything that walks on two feet" or some sluts my say, "Walks with 3 feet." (those of you who are lost, we shall say guys who are endowed).

The plus point of this, ahhhh... "race", is that they only go for those "mates" that they fancy not any Tom, Dick and Harry or Jane, Amy and Mary, for the male equivalent. This makes them rather special, but it does not sway from the fact, they are rather sexually active "race".

The shameless thing about them is, they would tend to build a reputation for it. In the Chinese point of view, this is something really bad. But to me honestly, they are not. I find it pretty hot (only for the chicks, I am hetero) cause they are really comfortable about their sexuality  and wanna share them to the world. So it is not all bad really. I bet there are guys out there who don't mind them. 

2.0 Prostitutes

As the Chinese saying goes, "Kah kui kui, than tua looi", Literal translation, "Leg open big big, you will earn big big money". Well this translation does not go to the, ... "race" as I mention before this, the sluts. 

To this "race", money is the main reason for doing this. To those that do not know what prostitutes are, do take a gun and shoot your head or look for a mass media machine, the newspaper or watch a TV program called, the News, you would be able to know something they always say, GRO with a lot of China girls keeping their head low while wearing skimpy clothes.

Nvm.. Moving on... 

This should be called a profession honestly. Because I can confidently tell you that, none of us would be able to provide paid sex to a total stranger. Be it an ugly, fat blob or an over-weight old hag, they would go to bed with them. 

Lets compare it with a marketer (no offense). 

• First, they would almost strip the company's product bare and understand every single detail of it. No matter who the client is.
• Then, they would sit down and experiments with different options they can use to present to the directors of their intentions for marketing it. 
• It would then present it through a whole list of trial and error to find out what the client fancies. 
• Once the client likes or dislikes the outcome, they would have to pay for their services. But all marketer would try their best to make every buck is worth it.

Again, lets compare it to an engineer.

• If a software/hardware has an issue, the right engineer would be called for the job. 
• The engineer would have experience from inside and outside the system and an all rounder of the thing they are using. 
• They would trial and error or make a calculated guess or even resorting to the most basic troubleshooting methods to get the job done. 
• Once it is fixed, they get their pay check. 

So now you tell me, should prostitution be called a profession?

3.0 Question on Dignity

As we look at it in from a general community point of view; nudity and sexuality is something very sacred and hold a person's dignity.  

From the perspective that I gave, sluts are doing it because they like it. Though they build a certain bad reputation about themselves but it is them that brings their self forward. It doesn't matter how the society looks at them because they know how to market themselves and bring themselves. No matter the shame they just wanna have fun! 

Then it comes to the prostitute, they are doing it because of the money. Yet they offer their dignity and everything that goes with it. That should be enough said from my point of view.

Do share your thoughts and tell me what you think.. :) Cheers! 

What is wrong with English?

Today on Astro in these past few days I found something funny. Fox TV now has their shows in Bahasa Malaysia. First question: What is wrong with English? I thought the government wants the country to speak  better English. Although in marketing terms, this is called Adaptation. But this is a little too much. 

I am now imagining Booth and Dr Brennan of Bones (TV Series) speaking to each other in Bahasa. This is going to be damn weird. I am seriously thinking, English should be used for these shows so people can learn better English in conversation. There is Bahasa subtitle already available. To be honest, this is the way most of us learn Cantonese  when we were watching Hong Kong Drama; we were using the subtitle to understand Cantonese and we then pick it up and start speaking. 

If you start spoon feeding everyone, no one will learn. Talking about Malaysia here. People are getting spoon fed for far too long. 

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I took this from Facebook. It is sorta a rip off off Malaysians. Let me translate it for ya. This ad is from Saudi Arabia.

1 Saudi Riyal = RM 0.94

Maknanya harga Persona kat Saudi = RM 33,934 

Maknanya harga Proton Gen2 kat Saudi = RM 32,256 

Maknanya harga Waja kat Saudi = RM 35,673

Why are Malaysian's being charged extra for a local car? 

Look at how our Ministers explain why we are charged so much. You Would Laugh! 

Relationships & Money (a little long)

What I am going to write here today in this blog does not signify anything. I should say my final paper finished today (Yay! I Finally Finished Something!) But when I came home i stumbled upon a song that made me want to write something on my blog site. Its bout relationships.

 

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As we all know, money is usually the main thing that comes into mind especially when u talk about relationship. In Malaysia, guys would usually say, "In order to have a gf, we need money." But trust me those who say this does not have a girlfriend. Here is the thing, Girls want guys with confidence and able to make decisions. Those guys who only look from afar, and dare not go.. would not get the girl. I bet you guys out there always ask, "Why that fugly guy is with that hot girl?" Or "Is that girl fucking blind?!" Here is the low down, he dares to go after her. He is not afraid of getting shut down because he knows what he wants and know he can treat her best! Confidence boys!  

Alright there are also those girls who only looks for rich boys and good looking boys. Yes, this type of guys can easily exist in this world. I have a girlfriend who looks for rich boys that are "ok" looker kinda guy as her boyfriend. But guess what she found many, was she ever happy? *shakes the head* The relationships keeps changing from different guys to different guys. Finding a rich boy and a boy who loves u and would do anything for you is hard to come by. Look for love! Not for Money!

Those in Relationship.

There are also relationships that ends because of money issue. But usually this comes down to communications. I have people who tell me love is basic understanding after sometime together. But as time goes, problems occur and they keep quiet about it or they would just keep it in them. One day it is going to explode and everything would turn sour. This happened to my friend and his gf. They never spoke to each other about problems they are not happy with each other. 

Alright I bet some of you are thinking, "But, hor! Every time when I want to talk to him/her time, he/she would avoid." If you love him/her, make sure he/she listens. It is hard but do it a few times to get his/her attention and force her to listen. If he/she breaks up with you because of this, he/she does not deserve to be loved. 

I am confident to tell you. I rarely quarreled with my girlfriend of 5 years.  I can tell you, the time we have quarreled are less then one hand's fingers. Because we talk,;yes sometimes, conversation turns sour. This is the time I accept it is her but definitely we would tolerate it because I love her.I bet she tolerates my craziness for rides. Do remember tolerate and talk when you can't tolerate anymore. He/she must have a reason why he/she is doing something. And oh yeah, guys! LISTEN TO HER!! So she won't nag at you anymore.

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Those in Relationships

Ever wonder why you love him/her? 

To me the best answer is, "I Don't Know!" or "Beats the shit out of me!" 

Come on, guys. Why do you go for a girl first? Be honest! I bet you it is either, she is drop dead gorgeous or has the biggest tits you have ever seen. For me, "Beats the shit out of me!"

But what makes you fully commit to a relationship? I bet we Chinese, we believe in sticking to a relationship for a long time. Forget about the playboys. I bet if you look back to the beginning, you won't be able to find a single reason why she has become part of your life as if she is your wife.

Those relationship: when you think you and her is over and done with, think back of the time you spent with her. It would give you another reason why you would stay with her. Believe me; we human always thinks the grass is greener on the other side. But I have a friend who has a girlfriend but left her after he saw another girl. He spent about less then a year with this new girl. But guess what; in the end, he goes back to his original girlfriend. So happened to my neighbour, he left his almost fiance, for anther girl. Now he is now married to my neighbour.

If you want to leave someone, please give him/her a honest reason why you are leaving. It hurts yes i do know. But it is best to let her know honestly. Then to see 1 month later, you have a picture with another girl close in your arms. I bet you don't want that to happen to you if she does that to you. 

My friend who is as close to me like a  brother, had this happened to him when his gf left him. It beat the shit out of him. But at least he keeps telling himself, I am alright and life goes on. This optimism is key to a good recover from a break up. Congrats Bro! 

Goes back to the point. If you think the grass is greener on the other side, think again. Would you want to shape another girl to understand you when you just do a little movement. 

Imagine this, your girlfriend would know when you want to smoke. She would know you are not interested in something when you do a certain action. She understand that a little movement of your body would tell her everything she needs to know on your day and what you want. 

Boys, would you want to start that over again?

Give your comments down below on your view.. thanks!